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90后已经出家了,因为他们的幸福感实在太低了……

本文授权转载自:环球时报英文版

今天,不少人的盆友圈被一篇玄乎的文章给刷屏了:《第一批90后已经出家了》……

“出家”,当然也不是真去削发剃度吃斋念佛。

反正这年头,啥都讲究一个心态。正所谓心中有佛则处处是佛,心态淡定了,面对各种烦人琐事也能露出无比超然的迷之微笑,四大皆空,阿弥陀佛。

这几天,“佛系XX”突然流行了起来。

结合@新世相的文章,“佛系”一族大致分为以下几种:

→ 佛性顾客:淘宝打车点外卖习惯性好评,有点什么小瑕疵也忍忍算了。生活已如此艰难,何必费力去给别人找麻烦。退一步海阔天空。

→ 佛性健身:动与不动,肉都在那里,不增不减。吃多吃少,计较那么多干嘛。累。卡嘛,办了也就办了。能不能用掉,随缘吧。就算不去折腾器械,去洗洗澡也是好的。

→ 佛系恋爱:不作,不问,不矫情,不期待。有什么好闹腾的,两个人相处着不讨厌已经挺好了。讨厌?隔几天也就不那么讨厌了。看上去超级懂事,实则超级无所谓。

→ 佛系养娃:现在的孩子多苦啊,还是让ta有个快乐的童年吧。现在的我多苦啊,何必还要自找麻烦地陪孩子去折腾。放过彼此,皆大欢喜,随便长长得了,反正我们这代人不也顺利长大了。

以此类推,或许还有“佛系追星”“佛系旅游”“佛系考试”“佛系打游戏”“佛系应聘”“佛系员工”“佛系乙方”……等等等等。

总之,结果不那么重要,过程嘛……似乎也不是太重要。体验体验得了,重在参与,平常心平常心。

好吧……咋如今年轻人都这么“佛”了?这样与世无争的心态,弄得跟早已大彻大悟了似的,知道的是90后,不知道的还以为90岁呢。

要说,这还真不能怪90后如此的“佛”。毕竟,这个群体如今可是所有人中最不幸福的了……

来看看这份今天新鲜出炉的报告:

@中国日报:

中国社会科学院发布的《中国社会心态研究报告》指出,“00”后处于学生阶段,主要面临学业任务,整体比较幸福。

“40”后基本处于颐养天年、儿孙绕膝的生活,主观幸福感最高,和“00”后基本持平。

“90”后基本属于大学毕业进入职场阶段,面临承担起职场责任、家庭责任的角色转变,主观幸福感最低

下面这张图表里,标红圈的就是90后了:

(出处见水印)

这幸福感真是低得可怜啊……

90后这种极低的幸福感,还不是今年才有的。

早在5年前的另一个调查里,可怜的90后们就已经“很不幸福”了……

“2012年中国家庭幸福感热点问题调查”结果在京发布。

调查显示,家庭幸福感随年龄递增,年龄越大,家庭幸福感越高,40后的家庭幸福感最高,90后的家庭幸福感最低。中国人民大学社会与人口学院教授杜鹏分析认为,这与年纪越大,对家庭投入越多,从中得到的满足越高有关,也与80后、90后群体面临就业、购房等巨大压力,及其对于“婚姻”带来的角色转变还在适应、磨合阶段等有关。

“2012年中国家庭幸福感热点问题调查”结果在京发布。

调查显示,家庭幸福感随年龄递增,年龄越大,家庭幸福感越高,40后的家庭幸福感最高,90后的家庭幸福感最低。中国人民大学社会与人口学院教授杜鹏分析认为,这与年纪越大,对家庭投入越多,从中得到的满足越高有关,也与80后、90后群体面临就业、购房等巨大压力,及其对于“婚姻”带来的角色转变还在适应、磨合阶段等有关。

▲2012中国家庭幸福感调查:90后家庭幸福感最低(via北京青年报)

5年前就“最不幸福”,5年后的现在依然“最不幸福”,90后真是太可怜了……

这样的调查结果,也让不少网友跟着一起泪流满面……

@吃蛋挞嘛:90后幸福感最低 没错了

@-牛奶啊牛奶:90后表示 我是谁 我在哪

@小园崽:毕业,找工作,家里催对象…焦头烂额…

@貓三歲616:还没结婚的大龄女青年总被催婚,身边同龄人成功的已经买车供房生完二胎,而自己却什么都没有,你说压力这么大怎么能幸福

@LUlHAIling:我们苦逼90后不仅要推进现代社会发展还要受其他年代的叔叔阿姨弟弟妹妹打压我们容易吗我们

@小海螺梦想:非常同意,九零后现在所处的位置非常尴尬

@kuaizai_:90后真的累

@钟小哇老婆:90后都秃了你说呢

秃不秃现在倒还不明显,只是主页君看着自己明显在后退的发际线,内心十分复杂……(是的,人家p自己的照片先p脸,我死命儿p自个的发际线

已经很惨,还老被戳刀

已经很惨,还老被戳刀

不知道是不是每个人到了20来岁的年龄,都会被其他人骂作“垮掉的一代”

在中国,70后“垮”过,80后也被各种口诛笔伐过,现在总算轮到90后了

去年,就有一封号称是“90后辞职信”的东西在微博上疯转……

Last year, one recently graduated male real estate agent made the news when he quit his job because there were “too many women in the workplace”, which “negatively influenced” his personality. His resignation letter went viral shortly after.

Another resignation that made its rounds on social media was that of a Hunan female office worker who wrote her employer that she wasquitting her job because “winter is too cold”, making it “difficult to get out of bed in the morning.”

Last year, one recently graduated male real estate agent made the news when he quit his job because there were “too many women in the workplace”, which “negatively influenced” his personality. His resignation letter went viral shortly after.

Another resignation that made its rounds on social media was that of a Hunan female office worker who wrote her employer that she wasquitting her job because “winter is too cold”, making it “difficult to get out of bed in the morning.”

▲Facing Challenges: China’s Post-90s Generation and Their Employment Market Conundrum (via whatsonweibo.com)

老实说,我对上面图里这封“辞职信”的真实性表示怀疑。员工任性卖萌也就算了,分管领导也用“呵呵”“无语”“TAT”这样不严谨的用词吗

在文章中,也有90后站出来对于工作表达了期待。虽然在许多人眼里,这些对于工作的“期待”是不够现实的……

Is the jiulinghou being unreasonable in what they expect from their work? A Beijing post-90er nicknamed ‘Pedy’, who teaches Chinese to foreigners at a Chaoyang educational institution, does not think so. She tells What’s on Weibo:

“We all just want a job that (1) we find interesting 有趣,(2) suits our skills学有所用, (3) offers a reasonable salary薪水合理, (4) is located not too far from where we live,离住的地方不远and (5) gives us a sense of success or achievement有成就感.If any of these requirements are not there, it will be very stressful for us.”

Is the jiulinghou being unreasonable in what they expect from their work? A Beijing post-90er nicknamed ‘Pedy’, who teaches Chinese to foreigners at a Chaoyang educational institution, does not think so. She tells What’s on Weibo:

“We all just want a job that (1) we find interesting 有趣,(2) suits our skills学有所用, (3) offers a reasonable salary薪水合理, (4) is located not too far from where we live,离住的地方不远and (5) gives us a sense of success or achievement有成就感.If any of these requirements are not there, it will be very stressful for us.”

▲Facing Challenges: China’s Post-90s Generation and Their Employment Market Conundrum (via whatsonweibo.com)

理想很丰满,现实往往很骨感。当下最现实的情况就是,被戴着“眼高手低”帽子的90后们,怀揣着想找一份有趣/学以致用/收入合理的工作的梦想,却普遍做着不那么满意的工作。

不仅如此,初入职场的90后们,还常常会碰到“无偿加班”之类有苦没处说的事儿……

“We do not get paid for overtime,” Li says: “But they just give us too much work to handle. If we do not finish our projects in time, they will subtract an amount from our wages, although this is not noted in my contract.” → 加班不给钱,要干的活越来越多,没按时干完反而要扣钱

Over recent years, some stories of young professionals literally working themselves to death have made headlines.

In 2011, the story of the 25-year-old PwC auditor Pan Jie went viral on Sina Weibo when doctors concluded that her overwork at the company might have played a crucial role in her death. → 普华永道员工被疑过劳死

“We do not get paid for overtime,” Li says: “But they just give us too much work to handle. If we do not finish our projects in time, they will subtract an amount from our wages, although this is not noted in my contract.” → 加班不给钱,要干的活越来越多,没按时干完反而要扣钱

Over recent years, some stories of young professionals literally working themselves to death have made headlines.

In 2011, the story of the 25-year-old PwC auditor Pan Jie went viral on Sina Weibo when doctors concluded that her overwork at the company might have played a crucial role in her death. → 普华永道员工被疑过劳死

▲Facing Challenges: China’s Post-90s Generation and Their Employment Market Conundrum (via whatsonweibo.com)

好吧……虽然“死”离绝大多数90后还是远了点儿,但你问问自己:脱发、肠胃不适、脊椎不适、乳腺增生、痔疮……这些是不是想想就很忧桑?

更悲惨的是,90后们不仅各种压力毛病一堆收入也高不到哪去。

之前大家热议“30岁的人存款该有多少”当时不少90后们就看着那些令人心惊肉跳的数字,想着自己没有几年也会迈入30岁门槛,而卡里的余额……不提也罢……

▲91年,月收入4000

▲93年,月收入近一万

▲97年,每月还完7000房贷“什么也没有”

▲96年,年收入10万左右

▲92年,月收入1.4万,每月还银行8000

▲月收入不超过3000

才刚过了几年经济独立的日子,体会到了自己养活自己的不易;工作了几年要么瓶颈要么跳槽要么迷茫,总归是少了刚毕业时的激情;身体状况也大不如从前,一边作死一边“养生蹦迪”;没结婚的被催婚、结婚了的被催生、生了的被催二胎……

感觉自己还没活出个什么门道来呢,就已经有一堆破事儿压得你喘不过起来了。

要大不小的人了,又不好学小愤青们犯中二病,生活里的不如意大多忍忍也就过了。“平常心”这仨字念得多了,可不就“佛”起来了么?

说是这么说,日子还得照样过。

每一代人都有各自的压力,每一代人也都是这么过来的。

……继续淡定超然地“佛”下去吧!

我们90后到底怎么你们了

!!!

你是90后吗?你觉得最大的压力是什么?你是“佛系”一族的成员吗?欢迎留言分享吐槽!

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